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10 Tips: How to Look HOT in your Wedding Photographs!

#1 Mucho Importanto!
Never stand straight on to the camera.  No matter how thin you are (or are not) turning your body 45 degrees to the left or the right is much more flattering than being square on to the camera.  Most people automatically square their shoulders to a camera and that will make someone look their widest possible in the finished photograph.

#2  Save your back…and look AWESOME!
Everybody does this when they are in bored waiting in line somewhere….. they put their weight on their back leg and slightly bent the front knee to rest it. Now turn the toes of the front leg towards the camera.  This give an angle to your body that appears natural to the viewer.  It flatters most body types and is an great overall position to look good in as well as to save your back from the stress of being on your feet for an extended period.  Now slightly bend “IN” the knee of your front leg – the one you unlocked to rest.  This gives a woman back her “S” curves and is much more flattering to the female body. Even though your legs are under your dress doing these things will greatly change the way you look – even in only head and shoulder photographs.  The results can be seen in your shoulders and hips – making for a much more pleasing look.

#3 P-R-E-S-E-N-T  ”Flowers”!
The flowers need to be held parallel to your body so they can be seen properly in your photographs.  Often brides hold the flowers at an angle so when they look down they see how pretty they are…too them.  However, that displays the flowers at an awkward angle to the camera that doesn’t look flattering  to the cameras.  As well, hold the flowers down near your waist with your elbows bent.  Too often when brides get nervous or to help because the flowers are heavy they bring them up closer to the bust line…giving the appearance in the photographs that you are hiding behind the flowers

#4 That SINKING feeling
Often on grass a woman’s heels will sink into the ground.  Causing her weight to be distributed incorrectly for a more flattering look in the photographs. To counter act this it’s best to stand more on the balls of your feet.  Remember, what often “feels natural” often doesn’t look nice on photographs. Photographs are a two dimensional space that you have to manipulate to add back the third dimension.  It’s all about what looks good in that “one degree” of an angle the camera sees.

#5  Double chins…. Be Gone!
This is going to sound weird, but remember a camera only sees from one particular angle.  When done correctly this technique will have amazing results. Extend your neck out and forward to the camera, then lower your head back to your normal viewing angle (while still keeping it extended forward). Often people raise their head and keep it theRE when doing this technique – that’s a no no…bring it back down to the normal height you keep your chin at – just slightly farther in front of your shoulders.   When done correctly the camera will never be able to tell that your head  is 2-3 inches closer to the camera than normal, except the excess skin under your chin will be stretched taunt. Instant double chin be gone!

#6 Come on out – we gotta SEE YOU!
Most often the groom is larger & taller then the bride. Often brides put their arms around their groom and sink in and under the mans’ shoulder. This is a great technique if the bride is wider then the groom and done correctly,  but 99% of the time it ends up making the bride look proportionately awkward next to the groom – not having the expected slimming effect you would think it has.  Let him slide in slightly behind you.

#7 Arm Wrestling Anyone?
Speaking of being taller, the taller person needs to have their arm higher when two people are putting their back arms around one another. When a bride (who is usually not as tall) puts her arm on the top over his, it distorts her shoulder, make A bias line in the dress and overall is unflattering for her.  Let him have the upper hand…this time!  :-)

#8 Oh this is cool – NOT!
Photographing down from a higher camera position generally has a slimming effect on all subjects.  Photographing UP to a person has a tendency of adding strength to an image, but needs to be done very selectively as it comes with a cost.  Unless the person working the camera fully understand how the human body works and how to present it in it’s best way, this is a perspective that can add MAJOUR  weight to the subject and easily over emphasize minor double chins, a little extra padding, etc. and turn them into major issues 10x larger then they are in real life.  I’ve never had a bride say ” Oh PLEASE make me look heavier in our photographs than I am in real life!”  A talented photographer knows how to correct those things from happening, but also knows when what angle should and should NOT be used in the first place.


#9 Be pro-active …no STRANGLING
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Guys don’t know any better. BEFORE they do the inevitable and put their arm around you pressing your veil into your back and pulling on your hair so your neck snaps back like you are being pulled by your hair (which you are!) WARN them they always need to have their arm UNDER your veil not over!  This saves your veil, your hairdo, your neck muscles and prevents a fight on your wedding day…everybody win!


#10  A little Dab’ll Do Ya!
They say women don’t sweat they “glow”…call it want you want  but when big areas of your face are super shiny in your photographers you still aint gonna like it!  Have access to a kleenex or small towel to dab the perspiration off your face.  It’ll make a hug difference in the final photographs. Especially since today there are so many photographers who never do ANY artwork on their images to enhance them (what ever happened to taking pride in your work?).

#11  BONUS TIP! , and most important overall……Hire a “REAL” Professional Photographer!
A real pro knows these and a million more ways and techniques of how to make their subjects look their absolute best in their images.  Today so many couples are cutting corners and hiring unskilled cheap photographers to photograph their wedding –  thinking that it’s easy and really the camera does all the work – wrong!  These are the same brides I see crying after their wedding when they come to me and ask me to try to fix up the horrible photographs they received from the cheap photographer they hired …or their uncle, or friend, or whatever…often costing them much more to FIX their BAD photographs then if they just hired someone talented in the first place.  It’s disheartening to see so many couples cheat themselves out of awesome wedding memories in an effort to save 1-2 thousand dollars.  Make it a cash bar, cut back on the meal, go for daisy’s instead of orchids flown in from China for flowers, hire a DJ over a live band, fly economy instead of first class to your honeymoon…… cut back Anywhere  BUT YOUR MEMORIES!  When everything is said and done, the meal will be forgotten, the hangover gotten over (hopefully) and your dress is packed away forever (what – you’re thinking you are going to wear it to work next Thursday?) ALL you have left for memories ARE your wedding photographs!  They are your future heritage and the memories that you are starting to build today.  Why cheat yourself, your children, your grandchildren, your great grand children, etc. out of your heritage to save a few lousy bucks?

Sorry little Johnny, your mom and I’s wedding photographs turned out so horrible we refuse to show them to anybody…but I will say we had an open bar at the reception!


April 22, 2011 - 10:51 PM

amy coe- inspire portrait - Great stuff! All of your tips are spectacular- especially the last one!

April 23, 2011 - 3:38 PM

Marlene Fast - Well said, Bruce. As a professional who has photographed over 1,000 weddings in the past many years, the number one thing is to make the bride look great and to create memories for their children. I am now photographing the same couples 25 years later and they all say that their wedding album is the most precious thing they own – and when they look back on their wedding day – without the photographs – the memory of the day has faded quickly.

This is a subject that I wish more brides would seriously consider when they plan their wedding – your wedding memories are the best legacy and investment you can make!

Coulda, Woulda, Shoulda – DOH!

The Professional Photographers of Canada had their yearly Image Salon (fancy word for photographic competition).  You are allowed to enter four images and all four of mine did fantastic – receiving one “Excellent” score and three “Merit” scores.   The competition is divided between Portrait and Commercial photography classes, and I entered 2 into each class. That was dumb of me, as with the scores I received  I would have been in Contention for Canada’s Photographer of the Year Award (Portrait, or the Commercial category)  if I had entered all four in either the Commercial or Portrait Categories.  As it was, 2 in  each doesn’t qualify me for being in a finalist for either.  Bummer!   My Excellent scoring image called “Moody Blue” was selected to be part of the “Loan Collection”, a collection of the top 50 Images in all of Canada that represent the very best of what Canadian photographers are capable of producing.

Here are my four images:


Hey Winnipeg- summer is around the corner…HONEST!

Winters in Winnipeg can be entertaining – as in “Do anything to entertain yourself to keep your sanity…”.  Of course, the changing of the seasons is always great to witness, though we all agree the summers need to be a little longer  (three cheers for climate change????).    As the snow is finally melted (please no more!), all of Manitoba is anxiously waiting for the warm weather to arrive and the leaves and flowers to come alive.  I’ve talked to several clients who are waiting with baited breath for the summer to arrive so we can photograph their family portrait outdoors as they desired – be it in their yard, at their cottage or somewhere special or interesting in the city.

For instance,  last fall I was holding a mall display at Kildonan Place and I met Ivan.  He loved my work (thanks Ivan!) and he wanted me to create family portrait of his family, something special to hang on their walls. After meeting and discussing their tastes, Katrina, Ivan and myself  decided that we would use a split session – both in park because they loved greenery, as well as in the exchange district because of of their love of Architecture.  The plan was to do something semi casual…. relaxed but they didn’t want anything “goofy”.  No problem!  In the end they actually ended up with three different wall portraits, one of the boys, a canvas of the family, and a collage of several different images – along with several small portraits of each of the boys, their 4 legged buddy “Cacique” as well one of Katrina and Ivan.  As their oldest is nearing the age where he may leave for University or College – it may very well be one of the last family portraits before  their boys grow-up and the family starts to expand. They wanted to capture the six of them (dogs are people too remember!) so they can always remember this time when they were all together under one roof.  An amazing time when the children were still kids and no matter what stresses life will ever throw at them in the future –  simply looking at the portraits will remind them of the most important things in their lives……  no matter where in the world everyone might be.

Remember, life can get busy, and before you know it time slips away.  The opportunity may pass itself up to capture this special time in your families life.  Call today and let’s set up a time to capture your precious family memories THIS summer!  ( It’s just around the corner after all – honest!)

OOOHH, Pretty!…ok, now must SLEEP! LOL

Ok, weird title – I know!  Here’s the scoop…..I’ve recently started a working relationship with Events By Emma, a event planner here in Winnipeg.  She had asked me if I could do some photographs for her of a charity event she was working on, “The Manitoba Moose Yearling Foundation’s Fundraising Diner”.  The Yearling Foundation raises money for several different children charities.  No problem I said.  Well, there “kinda” was a problem.  I had to be in Vancouver as I was asked to one again judge The Professional Photographers of Canada – British Columbia (PPOC-BC) chapter’s Annual Image Salon  (fancy word for photographic competition).  It’s distinguishes the top images and image makers of British Columbia, and among other awards it selects the BC’s Photographer of the Year.  Being asked to judge is a great honour, and a great responsibility.  This is my third year in a row flying to Vancouver to judge their Salon.   When you are given the tittle of Master Photographer (MPA) you are expected to give back to the industry that recognized you with that honour. 

So, the Yearling Foundation Banquet was on Wednesday, March 23rd.  Because I was off speaking at the Saskatchewan’s Chapter of PPOC, I was a little late in booking my flight.  The Air Canada options available to me by booking so late were not exactly numerous, shall we say.  Bottom line, I would leave Vancouver at 10:30PM Tuesday the 22nd of March and fly to Calgary, arriving at 11:50 PM. My flight was delayed about an hour, but that’s not the real problem. A scheduled 6 1/2 hour lay over in the middle of the night at Calgary’s International Airport was the real issue.  6 1/2 hours…. not really worth it to find a hotel to sleep and shower…with travel time and having to arrive at the airport at least an hour minimum before your flight, I’d be lucky to get 3 hours sleep when it was all said and done. So I decide that since I have no option of getting on another flight back home sooner, I would “sleep” in the airport.  Yeah right!
First off I am happy to learn that my Wpg departing flight’s gate was maybe 100 yards from my arrival gate…cool!  I was tired and grumpy when I arrived in Calgary. I try to wash up in the washroom a little bit and by the time I walk out there is NOBODY around.  Not just my gate, but ANY gate in that wing.  No flights, so everybody checked out and went home to their nice comfy beds. So I look around and finally find a small table next to a outlet.  So I unpack my laptop, plugged it in, start into the airport WIFI so I had SOMETHING to do until my eyes got so sleepy that I could even fall asleep on a bench at the airport (well, at least noise would not be an issue). I also plug in my cell phone as it is running low on juice.  Finally I’m all set up, and start cruising the net, checking  e-mail, blah, blah, blah.  They are just about closed. Just as I was about 2 minutes from attempting to lay down and fall asleep a security guard comes out of nowhere. “What are YOU doing here?” he asks. “Waiting for a horribly scheduled connecting flight” was my response.  ”Not here”, he said.” What do you mean, I’m in a secure section of the airport and my gate is right here.  I’m just a wee tad early that’s all.  Blame Air Canada for that!” Nope, you gotta go back to the main section of the airport..can’t stay here!” Now I’m tired and cranky and the thought of lugging my what seemed like 90lb backpack with my camera gear and laptop (that I just UNPACKED)  was not sitting well. Basically, I was not gonna win that argument!  He was making me go to the unsecured section of the airport, he didn’t really care what I did there, and then go through security once again (but I’m a secured passenger NOW ’cause I’m at my gate!).  Did I mention the short 100 yard walk?  Yeah well this one seemed like a 12 mile hike up a mountain as a shurpa hauling my camera gear.  When I finally get to where I need to be, I am not happy.  There are people sleeping all over the place.  By a Tim Horton’s I could have sworn I hear one guy say to another ” He’ll be back” and if I wanted to eat ANYTHING he would have been right.  That Tim’s reminded me of the signs you seen in the movies when people are driving through the desert ” Last service for 100 miles”. SO I FINALLY settle on an area that seems darker than the rest. My choice was also the one of many others as there were about 12 bodies with suitcases all around them.  People pulling up to comfy chairs face to face and lying on the seats…their legs hung over the back of one of the chairs, people sleeping on the floor (why when there were benches I wondered – DUH!) and there were a few other sleeping on the benches. Well, they were not “really” benches, but three individual seats in a row that were held together by steel bars. I decided any old port in the storm, and picked my favourite and tried to sleep. Before I fall asleep however, I STILL need to charge my cell phone.  No handy dandy close by plug this time around! No, on the other side of the tiled walkway by the closed stores I found the lonely outlet. Only about 30 feet away, but my phone had to sit up against a wall in the middle of a wall 30 feet away from where I am.  Call me crazy, but when sleeping in public places I tend to want to have my possessions on or near me, but it was my only choice and I wasn’t sleeping on a tiled floor!  When, I might as well should have as that so called “bench” must have been been designed during the cold war by an USSR Interrogation Officer!  No only could I NOT fall asleep, but my back started freaking out on me. Back spasms, totally stiff…there was no sleep at ALL that night – major pain.
Around 4:30 AM the waterfall beside the areas where I was not sleeping decided it was time to turn on..even though there was only a few employees starting to arrive, no public (other than us smucks who chose not to sleep on the benches that is).  Ok, that’s it!  I was told the security check-in would be open by 4:30AM, so I gather my stuff, and walking like a zombie while hunched over with 300lbs of backpack on my back which is about to divorce me…so off I go.  I haven’d slept for about 22 hours now, and I didn’t get a lot of sleep the night before, so I’m just about walking into walls and talking to plants!  I breeze through security  - what no LINES at 4:45AM???  and after a Vietnamese death march I find myself in a very familiar area….BACK at the gate and comfy proper benches I was booted out of a few hours earlier! Bruce not happy.
Ok, just get me on the “******* ******* plane and get me HOME!”  Now I am on one of the first flights out of Calgary in the morning.  Very early.  Too early for the crew I guess cause for no reason what so ever there is no staff member at the gate till about 10 minutes before we are scheduled to leave, never mind board.We finally board 45 minutes AFTER we were scheduled to leave. Fine – whatever – sleep…get me sleep! It’s snowing, and kinda ugly out, so we need to de-ice. Where there goes another 1/2 hour. No problem the pilot says, he’ll make up time in the air as he tried to comfort about 30 people who needed to catch a connecting flight to Toronto and were not pleased. I ‘think I may have gotten 1/2 hour shut eye on the flight, but I was not going to open my eyes when I was not sleeping. I was trying to negotiate with myself to get some sleep.  Didn’t really work.  Now I’m starving now,but I didn’t even want to give the attendant the hint that I may be awake so she would bring food to me and I would have to open my eyes to deal with here and shake the cobwebs out of my brain and then I’d never be able to fall sleep on the flight. So I get to Winnipeg only 75 minutes late (pushing 11:30AM), drag myself to the washroom and slam my head in the sink under the tap – “gotta get to the point where I can see straight again”. I meet my ride and eventually stumble in the door. The stomach was starving, but the brain said no way…sleepy time!  I crash hard…..till about 3:30PM. 4 hours only, but enough to be able to function. Gobbled down some food, woke up  in the shower, re-packed my camera bag and I was off (well I dressed in there as well – formal function you know!).
I get a sweet parking space right across from the main doors of the MTS Centre.  I come in and meet the security guard (not one of THEM again!). He informs me I MUST go to the security entrance which just happens to be on  ”exact” opposite side of the building that I am at right now.  ” But if you let me in that door I can get there in 30 seconds by walking inside, rather than 5 minutes around the build in the cold.  Can you maybe look away as I slip past you, I will not tell, HONEST!”  Well, you can guess his response to that…so I’m walkin’ outside in the cold…..I have to get buzzed into some nondescript fire door with a camera beaming down on me…. haul my camera bag down 2 flights of stairs (Could’a’ took an elevator if Mr. Guard would have been a buddy!). Sign in…only to be told that security cut my time in half to do the photographs of the decorations that I promise’d I’d do for Events By Emma.  No, the work load wasn’t cut in half…just the time I was allotted to do it in – THANKS! 

So finally I get in the arena bowl,and am very impressed. Emma and her team did a great job of turning a hockey arena into a location worthy of a classy black tie fund-raising affair.  I say hello to Emma, go over again what she asked me to do, and I’m off!   The funny thing about “work mode” is no matter how tired I am, if I have a cranky back, a cold, flu, headache, hangnail, ingrown nasal hair, diaper rash, the Black Plague, etc…. that all goes to the back burner when it’s time to photograph. Oh trust me, whatever ailment I happen to have will catch up to me again after I’m finished, but while I’m working it doesn’t exist. Funny, I get headaches when I don’t eat…except when I’m photographing.  Often I go the entire day without eating  and when it’s time for me to eat I hardly touch my food because I’m still wired from working. Same thing with sleep. After a long day I maybe exhausted…but I’m gonna be seeing the wee hours of the morning ’cause I just can’t sleep.  ”EXCEPT” for THAT day! After I did all the photographs asked of me and more…..I did the long march back to my “great” parking space, drove home, walked in the door and proceeded to go into a 12 hour coma!
Here’s several images of the decorations that Events By Emma did for the Manitoba Moose Yearling Foundation’s fund-raising dinner.  Also a neat image of the Moose Logo projected onto the carpet…. and even one of my Councillor Thomas Steen just for the heck of it.  He has a pretty puzzled look on his face, not exactly sure why….didn’t care at that point.  That was the last shot of the event and was taken just because and I was already finished with everything I needed to do.  The brain was starting to turn off and let sleep take over……zzzzzzzz.

Speaking in Saskatchewan to Professional Photographers…

I recently returned from putting on a 1/2 day seminar (I needed more time actually) on photographic lighting and composition to the Saskatchewan chapter of The Professional Photographers of Canada.   Today with so many new photographers entering the industry, the average level of ability of people in the industry is dropping like it’s been thrown off a cliff…when in reality with all the advancements in digital technology it should be shooting skyward like a rocket.  What’s going on?  Simple, owning a fancy camera makes you no more a photographer than sitting in your garage makes you a car.  Composition and lighting are two of the corner stones of good photography, with body mechanics being the third (for people photography at least). Ever since I entered into the industry I have always placed a strong emphasis on composition, creating striking images with graphic lines, leading the viewer through the image as I wish them to see it.  I’ve developed a system I call “SLDP” over the years which plays a major roll in the way I photograph. Couple that with dynamic lighting and all of sudden you have a striking image for people to look at and admire.

Below are a few images of my program in Saskatoon.  Another speaker, international destination wedding photographer David Beckstead came up to me afterwards and told me how much he enjoyed my program.  Another long time photographer complimented me by saying it was the best presentation on composition he has ever seen in 30 years.  It’s always great to know your work and knowledge is appreciated and admired by your peers.  This week I’m off to Vancouver to judge the  photographic competition of British Columbia’s Chapter of the Professional Photographers of Canada.  It’s a little hectic, but it’s great to know you are looked at as someone who others wish to learn from.  That just makes me want to do even better work for my own clients.

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